The Next 40 Years - Celebrating Your Life Journey!
Yup. My time has come. The big 4-0. Everyone tells me it only gets better from here. Well, then, I'm pretty darn lucky because for all its ups and downs, my first 40 have been pretty amazing. I've had the opportunity to travel all over the world, see and experience things only a handful do. From Thailand to Nicaragua to where I am celebrating now – Mexico. From safaris to surfing. Broken hearts, but luckily never a broken bone. I had a few thoughts on turning 40, but to be honest, I haven't done a whole lot of contemplating on the subject. It's another year like any other. And I truly feel I am where I am supposed to be. (Right now, that's enjoying a margarita with three of the best girlfriends I could ever ask for). While I'm certainly not stress-free, I do stress less. And enjoy more.
Thought I'd share my contemplations, straight from my journal entry from the morning of –
Wow. 40 years. Of pretty cool living and I'm only halfway there – at least. My wish for myself? To come into and go through the next decades of my life with grace, abundance, more love – to keep cracking open to uncover the light and see my true nature. To connect to that more and more. And speak, walk, and act from that authentic space. To fear less. To enjoy more. God willing – to stay healthy and strong and adapt as needed. To embrace those I love more fully and not worry so much about the ones who don't love – or even like – me. Worry less. Smile more. Even when I may not want to. Think less, do more. But do less too. So maybe not "do." Actually, be OK with NOT doing all the time. BE more. That's better. Be OK with just being here. In one place. Being happy and healthy because there really is no greater gift. You are loved. And supported. You are blessed with so much. And you are love. Be honest. With yourself and with others. Authentic. Speaking your mind does not make you a bitch. But know now, that you will make mistakes. Apologize. And so will others. So forgive. Celebrate successes because you deserve them. And embrace and then release sorrow. Help others even it it's just by being kinder to them. And forever be grateful that you were brought into this world for a reason. To live with purpose. And grateful to the two people that supported your gift of life – Mom and Dad. Now go forth and enter the next 40-plus years with all of this.